In a recent social media engagement message, NYC Prenup asked our followers to share their thoughts on prenuptial agreements. One follower responded with a heartfelt story and a request for help, and with her permission we’re sharing it here to help others in similar situations. Names and details have been changed to protect privacy, but the message remains the same.
Jane’s Email to NYC Prenup
To the Attorneys at NYC Prenup,
My Fiancé and I have been engaged for over a year, and we are actively planning our wedding. We are not one of those “stay engaged forever” couples, we have been steadily moving toward this. We’re in love, and we rarely argue. That is until recently.
The Issue? Money. And his ex.
John, my fiancé, was married for seven years and has a six-year-old daughter with his ex-wife, Susan. She’s been difficult since the divorce and recently started threatening that she’ll go after my assets—yes, mine. I own real estate and have more financial resources than John, and she claims her lawyer will use my assets to calculate support. She’s even said she’ll target equity in my home and anything I purchase with John in the future.
It’s a nightmare, and just so messy. The whole situation has caused me to think about calling off the wedding and just continuing to live together. But then I saw your post.
Would a prenuptial agreement protect me from these threats?
Also, your website says the document can be completed in two days, is that a firm timeline? I’m hoping it’s true because the sooner we get this done, the better for all of us!
Thank you,
Jane
Our Response
Dear Jane,
Thank you for reaching out, and you’re not alone. We’ve seen this kind of situation before, and we understand how stressful it can be.
The short answer is: yes, a prenuptial agreement can protect your assets, if structured properly. Here’s how:
· If your assets remain solely in your name and are excluded from joint ownership, a prenup can ensure they stay protected.
· If John gains access to or ownership of those assets, they may be considered in support calculations or future claims.
A prenup allows you and John, not a judge, to decide how assets are handled. It’s a proactive way to protect your property and reduce the risk of outside interference.
As for timing: yes, we typically deliver your first draft within 48 hours of receiving your completed form. We know how important peace of mind is, especially when planning a wedding.
We’d be happy to help you get started.
Warmly,
The Staff Attorneys at NYC Prenup
A Happy Ending
Jane and John completed their prenuptial agreement with NYC Prenup, and they’re thrilled with the peace of mind it gave them. Jane told us she feels empowered, protected, and excited to move forward with her wedding.
Every relationship is unique. Every prenup should be too. Don’t let stress and fear prevent you from protecting yourself and your loved ones from the uncertainties of future, or past experiences.
Let us help you protect what matters most.
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